one of my hospital menu, yummy

keep smiling :)

New Hair Style

After a bunch of banana, I finally succeed to "wipe" Boy's hair to a side. Enjoy the pic.

Horsie Boy's Eye - Healed

These are the pics of Boy's eye. It got well day by day. I think, 2 days ago's big rain really help to wash away all dirts on his eyes. Yesterday, the swelling has reduced, and no sticky dirts anymore.
Today, it already looks like normal. Look at his huge eyes!!! Bright and shiny. And he also munch alot today. So, confirmed, he's well now :)

Horsie Boy's Eye

This afternoon when I was about to feed Boy, I realised something was wrong with him. He kept shaking his head, I thought he was just playing, then I saw his right eye. It was badly swollen, teary marks and some creamy liquid . Not sure what the cause is, but maybe he has been quite naughty and keep rubbing his eyes to any object that he could find. Tried to wash his eyes with fresh water, but he refused. Anyway, he still has his appetite, so hopefully it is not that serious.

Do You ever Really Listen?

Have you ever had a problem, and you asked around for a solution?
Say, Someone “less-respected” gave an answer to your problem, but you doubt or won’t take it.
Sce: Your car tire was flat, your driver easily solve it for you. But you don’t trust him as he might exchange your tire with cheaper one or he might cheat your money.
Or, Someone “highly-respected” gave an answer to your problem, but the answer is too common-sense. Still you doubt it.
Sce: A doctor told you that you simple had common flu, but you insisted on a bigger-drama illness like H1N1. You doubt him, and get 2nd opinion just to prove you are right???

Why do we ignore “correct” or “common-sense” answer? Is it because it is too easy to solve? Do we reject it as we deny our inability to solve the simple problem?
Then why most people readily believe impossible advice or take magic cure? Why take the complicated way?
Sce: You asked car agent about the flat tire. Then you got an advice that you need to change the entire car. And you go crazy about getting new car.
Sce: Your doctor said you had common flu, lots of water, take meds & a good rest will do. Still you go to “magic doctor” for 2nd opinion. He said someone sending evil vibes to you, then suggests you to take flower-bath, burn a few incenses, and donate to magic God. Suddenly you freaked out & do it religiously.

Why is it so hard to listen to normal/common-sense/un-sensational advices? Why do we listen to stupid advices? Are they really persuasive people? Do they really able to lure you? Maybe those unreasonable advices were able to get you extra attention from your peers? Or are we simply too stupid to differentiate good and bad advice?

Horsie Boy

I guess it is time to put my friend's pic on this blog. This is a male horse at factory, nobody knows his name, but i usually call him "Boy"
Well, he no longer a boy, he's pretty old, i guess, judging from his lack of teeth. Sometimes i feed him with carrot, banana & papaya, but his main diet remains green grasses. Until today, I have succeed to touch his nose for a few times, but still failed to tap his neck.
Here are some picture of him

Good Bye, Grandpa

2 Oct
Heard news that grandpa had an accident, might injured his hips. He was in coma.
6 Oct
Asking SJ, a dear friend to help me call up grandma. Asking how’s grandpa’s condition.
7 Oct
My friend msg me, Grandpa was not in a very good condition, he hasn't wake up since the accident. They did a surgery for his hips, but then he got lung infection, which is more lethal than his actual injuries. Doctor predicted, grandpa only had a few days left.
9 Oct
On the night, I had a dream. I heard grandpa was back, he has been released from hospital. He was in a bigger house, with many people. I came to visit him. He gave me very big smiles like he always does; he opened up his arms and gave me a long hug. So many people there, they held a party for his come-back. There were some dancing and singing too. He was just sitting there, looked happy, but a bit tired.
10 Oct
Told a few friends about the dream. Some said, maybe it is a bad omen. I don’t dare to say anything. Hoping they were all wrong.
12 Oct
SJ msg me, asking if I have called grandpa/grandma. I said no, I haven’t. Even if I were to speak Indonesian, I wouldn’t know what to say to grandma, let alone in Chinese. So SJ said, she’d help me to call them. Guess what. Grandpa passed away on 9th; the night I dreamt about him.

Thank you for all your kindness during my stay in Beijing. Thanks for visiting me in the dream. Sorry, I couldn’t be there for your funeral. I know you’ll be in better place, wearing a very big smile just like in the dream.
I miss you, Grandpa …

earthquake...

I am very grateful that my family are OK. The 30 Sept 2009 earthquake in Padang, West Sumatra is really devastating this area.
I really don't know wat to say here... Just thankful to any creature that help to protect my family
Really painful that I cannot be physically there to help them :(
At this time, my wishlist really shorten to one line: Please keep my family safe & healthy
Love you, Dad, Mom & Bro ...

I am not Yours

You can't expect others to feel your pains & worries ...
and
It is only OK, when I myself said I am doing fine
I am not yours, you have no rights to decide my state of mind
and
You, mere strangers, have no rights to tell me if I have enough or not

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